As I prepare to celebrate 15 years of marriage this August, I find myself reflecting on the journey my husband and I have taken together. Our relationship began on rocky ground, blending our families and bringing all of our wounds, baggage, and unresolved traumas into the mix. It wasn’t easy, and there were times when the seasons felt especially difficult. But through it all, we never gave up. Our path has been filled with love and healing, and I can confidently say we wouldn’t be where we are today without turning to Jesus. Diving deep into our faith and bringing God to the forefront of everything we do has transformed our marriage in ways we couldn’t have imagined. With God as our North Star, we’ve found a clear direction for our relationship, one that leads us towards a happy, thriving, and healthy marriage.
Our journey taught us the importance of building our marriage on a foundation of faith. Together, we committed to putting God first in our lives and our relationship. Regular prayer has become a cornerstone of our connection, allowing us to invite God's presence into our relationship and seek His wisdom and guidance. Engaging with the Bible has provided us with a shared understanding of God’s teachings and how they apply to our lives and marriage. Worshiping together has strengthened our spiritual bond and given us a supportive community that offers encouragement and accountability.
Effective communication has been essential in maintaining peace and harmony. Guided by love, patience, and understanding, we are learning to listen actively. By fully listening to each other, we show empathy and validate each other’s feelings, fostering a deeper connection. Choosing kind and respectful words, even during disagreements, is helping us maintain a loving atmosphere. Inspired by God’s forgiveness, we are learning to extend grace to each other, which has been crucial for reconciliation and peace.
In our busy lives, staying connected has required intentional effort. We’ve prioritized regular time together, allowing us to enjoy each other’s company without distractions. Engaging in activities we both enjoy is strengthening our bond and creating cherished memories. Even on the busiest days, taking a few minutes to check in with each other has made a big difference in our connection.
We’ve embraced the importance of serving each other selflessly, reflecting Christ’s love and humility by putting each other’s needs first. We look for ways to meet each other’s needs, even when it requires personal sacrifice. Encouraging and supporting each other’s dreams has been a vital part of our journey. Facing challenges together, with God’s help, is strengthening our bond.
Trusting in God’s plan has been essential. We are learning that God’s timing is perfect, and trusting that God knows what’s best for our marriage is bringing us peace. Leaning on God for guidance and wisdom is illuminating our path. Modeling our love for each other after God’s unconditional love is transformative.
Our marriage, centered on God, is built on a rock. As we continue to grow and heal, I am so grateful for my husband and all that he brings to our relationship. With God as our guide, our sails are set towards a future filled with happiness, joy, and continued growth. I can’t wait to see what each year brings as we navigate this journey together, hand in hand, with faith leading the way.
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